Many women ask me, in fact I have often asked myself, when will this pass? When will this pain end? When will I accept what happened to me? When will I forgive myself? Please take a moment and take a…
This is a special plea for the chagim. when all the families sit together and spend time together during this holiday season, one family sits and cries for the baby that is not with them. Holidays can be a time…
To process and go thru grief of any kind is a life changing experience. No one touches death and does not come out changed by the experience. There is no guidebook on how to lose a baby. No one can…
When thinking about trying again for a baby, a mother who has just lost hers will have understandably many feelings. There is a source out there that says a mother who conceives too soon after will have an extended grieving…
The days leading up to my baby’s Anniversary are complicated. I begin to dread ‘that’ day starting about a month before. This year it will be nine years. I get a jolt when I say that number. I have a…
How a person reacts in times of sadness and crisis is quite a journey of self-discovery and a huge reality check. One needs to have patience with grief and mourning. Grief cannot be rushed or controlled. I am going to…
I remember sitting in the hospital, empty handed, waiting on the balcony as my husband got me released from the hospital. I sat there completely numb and the world around me felt so surreal. Every color was sharper, every sound…
The day you find out your baby is no longer living is the day everything you thought you knew about life changes. Some describe it as having all your sense of security and safety crash down around you…
